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Consider someone who asks a - [Part Two: The Clutter Monster](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/part-two-the-clutter-monster/) - Welcome back, brave adventurer! You've heard the tale of one hero's battle with the Clutter Monster. Now it's your turn to begin your own quest. Every successful expedition follows a plan, and this map is designed to guide you one manageable step at a time. There is no need to conquer the entire castle in - [Part 1: The Clutter Monster](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/part-1-the-clutter-monster/) - The Adventure Begins Every great quest begins with an ordinary problem that somehow grows into an intimidating monster. For many of us, that monster isn't a dragon, it's the overflowing closet, the crowded garage, or the spare room we keep meaning to organize "someday." If you've ever opened a closet, sighed, and quietly closed the - [The Theory of Visual Energy Units](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/the-theory-of-visual-energy-units/) - Not long after I became legally blind in 2010, I was introduced to a woman who would become very influential in my life. Liz is deafblind, has similar body issues to my own and has been a long-time guide dog handler. She taught me much about living blind as well as making the decision whether - [Beyond 911: Helpful 3-Digit Phone Number](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/beyond-911-helpful-3-digit-phone-number/) - Most of us know to call 911 in an emergency, but it's far from the only 3-digit number that can make life easier. Several easy-to-remember phone numbers connect you with important services, from finding community resources and mental health support to reporting non-emergency city issues or locating buried utility lines before you dig. Keeping these numbers handy - ["Why are the pork chops so pink?"](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/why-are-the-pork-chops-so-pink/) - As the cook in the family, I try to make sure everyone gets fed and that there are leftovers for later. Most of my cooking happens by touch, smell, and timing these days, which works surprisingly well. It had been a busy day, and I had set aside six pork chops to cook in the - [10 Unique Uses for Bump Dots](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/10_unique_uses_for_bump_dots/) - From The Exploring Life Skills Desk Bump dots are a fantastic tactile tool for individuals who are blind or visually impaired, helping them navigate their environment with ease and increasing independence. Here are 10 creative ways to use them: Marking Appliance Controls Place bump dots on Frequently used buttons on microwaves, ovens, washing machines, and - [Napping is a Tool](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/napping-is-a-tool/) - Energy and Vision Changes I had been blind for about a year when I had the opportunity to talk with an adjustment to sight loss counselor, who is blind herself. I will never forget how impactful one of the first things she told me was; “it takes a lot more energy to do everything when you’re - [Navigating Social Situations](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/navigating-social-situations/) - Tips From the Exploring Life Skills Desk Adjusting to social situations as a blind or visually impaired individual can be challenging, but there are effective strategies to navigate interactions with confidence with practice. Here are some ways to ease social engagement: Develop Strong Communication Skills; Expressing thoughts clearly and confidently helps in social interactions. Toastmaster groups - [When Dining In and Out](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/when-dining-in-and-out/) - Things to Think About Dining In Present to your dining venue with clean clothes and good hygiene Use your manners (don’t talk with food in your mouth, sit up straight, elbows off table, say please and thank you, cough into sleeve or napkin, asked to be excused if you need to step away, etc.) Use - [Medication Managment](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/medication-managment/) - By Teresa Christian, Marja Byers, Todd Fahlstrom Best Practices For someone who is newly blind or adjusting to vision loss, managing medications independently can feel daunting. Yet with the right strategies, tools, and support, it becomes not only possible but empowering. The following tips provide practical guidance for blind and low vision individuals, as well as for - [Organization: Home and Kitchen](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/organization-home-and-kitchen/) - From todd's Exploring Life Skills Desk. Edited by Desirée A. Christian Here are the top 10 organizational skills tailored for home and kitchen environments, along with practical tips to make each one work beautifully: Consistent Placement Skill: Always store items in the same location. Tip: Use labeled bins or drawer organizers. For example, keep all spices in one tactile-labeled - [Vision Changes Affects Your Energy](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/vision-changes-affects-your-energy/) - I had been blind for about a year when I had the opportunity to talk with an adjustment to sight loss counselor, who is blind herself. I will never forget how impactful one of the first things she told me was; “it takes a lot more energy to do everything when you’re blind. You will - [Balance; it might not be your inner ear.](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/balance-it-might-not-be-your-inner-ear/) - How vision and hearing changes can affect your balance 1. How Vision Affects Balance Your eyes give your brain important information about: Where you are in space (spatial orientation) How far away things are (depth perception) How you’re moving (visual feedback) When vision changes due to eye conditions (cataracts, glaucoma, macular degeneration, double vision), neurological - [Shopping As A Team-Sport](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/shopping-as-a-team-sport/) - Tips for Making the Most of In-Store Assistance Welcome to today’s main event: the grocery store. On one side, you—the shopper—with a list, a purpose, and a limited amount of energy. On the other, your store teammate—a store staff member who may be overworked, inexperienced, or unfamiliar with assisting someone with vision changes. Like any - [Laughing at the Wrong Times (and Being Grateful for It)](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/laughing-at-the-wrong-times-and-being-grateful-for-it/) - More than twenty-five years of parenting and caregiving for two medically fragile daughters stripped away any illusion of certainty. Plans became provisional. Assumptions dissolved. What emerged in their place was a kind of adaptable resilience, paired with an absurdist, sometimes irreverent sense of humor shaped in part by laughter and gratitude. Those practices helped me - [Riding with Confidence](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/riding-with-confidence/) - A Guide to Local and Regional Bus Travel Bus travel can be a powerful tool for independence, connection, and confidence—especially for blind and low-vision travelers. Whether you’re riding across town or heading to another city, having the right information and a solid plan makes all the difference. Here’s a guide to help you decide what - [The Secret of the Sound](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/the-secret-of-the-sound/) - Click Plunk plunk Squeak squeak squeak Clump clump clump clump I’m re-learning the world around me, one sound at a time. I didn’t realize how much my hearing had declined over the years until my new prescription hearing aids re-awakened my wonder at the forgotten nuances of sound. The click of the electric baseboard heater - [Lake Lemonade Part 3: Tools, Practice, and Building Confidence](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/lake-lemonade-part-3-tools-practice-and-building-confidence/) - In Part One of the Lake Lemonade series, Desirée shared a kitchen mishap that many people with changing vision can relate to: the moment when depth perception doesn’t behave the way you expect. Along with the story came some foundational do’s and don’ts for pouring safely. 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We poke at these things not simply for the pleasure of pointing them out, but because noticing our own absurdities can help us become a little kinder to ourselves and to other people. From vision changes and disability to relationships, identity, assumptions, expectations, habits, and the stories we tell ourselves, this is a place to laugh, reflect, learn, and occasionally ask, “Why on earth do we do that?” The goal is not perfection. It is awareness, compassion, and perhaps finding a better way forward. ## Tags - [bump dots](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/bump-dots/) - [tactile](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/tactile/) - [energy](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/energy/) - [low vision](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/low-vision/) - [nap](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/nap/) - [low vission](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/low-vission/) - [spoons](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/spoons/) - [fatigue](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/fatigue/) - [sleeping](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/sleeping/) - [sleep](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/sleep/) - [social situations](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/social-situations/) - [Eating](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/eating/) - [Dining](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/dining/) - [Navigating Food](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/navigating-food/) - [Food](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/food/) - 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[Vision Explained](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/vision-explained/) - [Brain and Vision](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/brain-and-vision/) - [Brain and Sight](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/brain-and-sight/) - [Slight Loss](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/slight-loss/) - [Vision Changes](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/vision-changes/) - [Lying Eyes](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/lying-eyes/) - [sight loss](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/sight-loss/) - [Expectations](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/expectations/) - [Self-Care](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/self-care/) - [Self Care](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/self-care-2/) - [3-digit numbers](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/3-digit-numbers/) - [Emergency Nunbers](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/emergency-nunbers/) - [Nationally Asigned Numbers](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/nationally-asigned-numbers/) - [spoon theory](https://www.vipcoachinginthedark.com/tag/spoon-theory/) - 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